Autism Awareness

“Success in Adulthood begins with an independent child

My first memory of Autism was many years ago while working in Primary Education, with a young boy on his first day in the reception class.  At age 4 he had no diagnosis, but had also been completely sheltered from the world outside of his own family circle and as a result often displayed challenging behaviour, and was non-verbal.  Upon his arrival the distraught child immediately retreated under the desk, and began sucking his thumb, while the other children looked on in bewilderment.  It still brings a smile to my lips as I recall the faces of the class teacher and the headmaster; when I retreated under the desk with him, where we stayed for quite some time, before a small frightened hand reached out for mine, and eventually some hours later, we both emerged and so began our journey together.   

Some years later, this child was unrecognisable, and with the efforts of parents, school, myself and other psychologists, he could engage with peers, albeit in his own comfort zone; he could speak on his own terms (usually when we needed him to be quiet!); but more importantly he could engage in a mainstream classroom with his peers during activities, and continued to improve as time went by.

Initial concerns

More often than not, when a parent receives that initial diagnosis of autism for their child, even if they are on the lower end of the spectrum; it brings with it an array of concerns, worries and questions, about finding friends, attending school, how independent will the child be, what does the future hold for my little boy or girl.

Questions like how will they cope if they do go to school? What if something happens to us the parents? Will anyone else really understand them? Concerns about job possibilities, education and such are not without merit; and this is a very worrying time as you firstly gain a full understanding of what your child needs, but also learn about how best you can support them in their development.

One of the most important things that you can remember is that your child needs to be provided with skills that will help them become, as independent an adult as is possible, so sheltering and shielding your child from the world is not the answer.

Each Child has Unique Qualities     

While this may not apply to all children with autism, the vast majority of children will and can become successful adults in society. All children with autism are different, they all achieve at different levels and all progress at a different pace. As recent research indicates more than 10 percent of children with autism improve dramatically before reaching their mid-teens (De Weerdt, 2013); while the majority of other children and teenagers remain stable or improve to a lesser extent, but there is little evidence of regression.

Further studies show that children with high verbal intelligence demonstrate progress in verbal competence very early on when they are supported during family life and education; with supporting studies highlighting language skills and IQ as good predictors of a child’s outcomes (De Weerdt, 2013).

Further supporting these findings, a Canadian study Bennett (2013), demonstrated that children who were diagnosed with autism aged four to 19 years, all improved in terms of social and verbal skills, going on to enjoy full and independent lives.

One thing to bear in mind is that notwithstanding the complications and delays that are characteristics of the disorder; often children with autism have some wonderful talents and strengths, making them somewhat unique.  Here we see a painting by Armit Khurana Autistic Artist.    

Short (2010) identifies qualities such as great attention to detail, skills and knowledge in particular areas, usually in areas of interest to them; they tend to be very logical, demonstrate little concern about what others think of them. Their visual perception is excellent, and they are loyal, honest and trustworthy people.

Successful People  

Unsurprisingly therefore many people with autism go on to lead very rewarding lives and a lot of famous and successful people have been diagnosed with autism, some of them in later life.

People like Albert Einstein and Mozart, two highly renowned historical talented figures.

Dan Aykroyd, Sir Anthony Hopkins and Daryl Hannah, all very successful actors.

Greta Thunberg a young celebrity and activist who was diagnosed with Aspersers, OCD and selective mutism, and as self proclaimed only speaks when she feels the need to say something important.

The well-known and accomplished Dr. Temple Grandin, a professor of Animal Science at Colorado State University and spokesperson for people with autism; and many more successful people, musicians, famous company directors, inventors and more.

Things to Bear in Mind   
  • No two children with Autism are the same, they will not present in the same way.  Each child is an individual.
  • Take each day as it comes, what works today might not work tomorrow, so be flexible, adapt, and change as required.
  • Be willing to take onboard new advice, changing times bring changing measures.  Research is constantly finding different ways for us to support our children, so don’t be afraid to try something new.
  • Relationships are vital in instilling a feeling of belonging, security, routine, reassurance, trust and safety.
  • Stability is key for any child, but for the child with Autism, who may not feel calm and regulated, a child who is anxious, frustrated, feeling uncertain; a lack of stability hinders the ability to learn and focus, concentration will be minimised.  So maintain stability at all times.
  • Communicating involves more than speaking, so be aware of body language, attention, responding to cues, and use visual aids when required to help minimise frustrations. PECS, Sign language, written and visual supports.
  • A child with Autism can also have attention and focusing issues, so wait for a response, don’t repeat the question or statement several times, as this causes a delayed response and causes their brain to begin processing the comment/instruction again.
  • Puppets are a great way to communicate, particularly if the child is uncomfortable making eye contact, or engaging with an adult.  Often they will speak with and through the Puppet, taking small steps to gain social skills required.
  • Routine in the environment will help keep anxiety in check.
  • Work towards embedding social skills needed to interact with others independently. Don’t force the issue, let the child do this at their own pace.
  • Encourage play, as it is through play that children attempt new things, and make new friendships.  Start small, take your cues from the child, but don’t give up, these are the skills that are needed in later life.
Building Independence

The child with autism needs and probably will continue to need a support network, regardless of their diagnosis and where they are situated on the spectrum; so it is vital to provide them not only with an awareness of this network, but with underpinning skills which ensure they move forward and be the best they can be.

As parents and educators, we should work with these children to help them gain competency skills so they can step into the world as an adult able to cope, build relationships, interact socially, and enter the workforce.

Building independence is key, encouraging your child to be the best they can be and remembering that a diagnosis of autism does not subsequently mean a life where the child is unable to make friends, hold down a job, get married, become a parent.

A child with autism is no different to any other child, they need encouragement, support and guidance, they need help to develop the skills required to become that successful adult and gain independence and security; it may take longer, the journey along the way might be different, but ultimately the end result is the same, and most children with autism become adults who are self sufficient and able to function in society to the best of their ability.

References

Bennett, T. A., (2014) Language impairment and early social competence in preschools with autism spectrum disorders; a comparison of DSM-5 profiles, J Autism Dev. Disorder 44(11):2797 -808.

Dawson, G. (2010) ‘Randomised controlled Trail of an intervention for Toddlers with Autism, The Early Start Denver Model’, Pediatrics 125(1):17-23.

De Weerdt, W. (2011) Developmental and initial validation of the preschool imitation and Praxis Scale (PIPS), Research in Autism Spectrum Disorders 5(1):463-473.

De Weerdt, W. (2013) Understanding the mechanisms behind deficits in imitation: do individuals with autism know what to imitate and do they know how to imitate, Research in Developmental Disabilities, 34(1):538-545.

Johnston, C. P., et al. (2007) ‘Identification and evaluation of children with Autism Spectrum Disorder’, Pediatrics, 120(5):1183 -1215.

National Council for Special Education (NCSE) Supporting Students with Autism Spectrum Disorder in Schools, A guide for Parents, Guardians and Students, NCSE, National Autistic Society (UK) [available at] http:www.nas.org.uk/ [accessed on 30/3/21].

Published by Dr M

An Early Years Specialist in the areas of Education, Psychology, and Research, I am passionate about curriculum development and the benefits of IT in Early years for promoting creative thought, autonomy, and innovative teaching and learning. Throughout my career I have also been involved in raising awareness of the importance of outdoor play, the provision of training and development in Adult Education; improved Parental involvement, and also Psychological development and behavioural analysis particularly in children under 6yrs. As a Counsellor and Psychotherapist, I work with parents, schools, and preschools as consultant and mentor offering support and advice, training, and quality assurance with the aim of encouraging standardisation and recognition amongst the Early Years profession.

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